It’s not fun to have a broken
heart. But hey, you gotta move on and live your life. Cry if you want, but
maybe one day you would look back and laugh at yourself because of crying for a
wrong person. Note this : “If she’he is not the one for you, it means you will
get a better person. God will always have a great plan for you.”
I know it isn’t easy to forget
them, especially when you spent lots of time with them. But rhere are some
thing we can do to help healing our broken hearts. Let me share the things I
did when I had my heart broken.
1. Stop listening to sad songs, or any songs which remind you of them. There’s no point to remember each moment you had with them. And sad songs will only make you sad more and more. Instead of sad songs, try to listen to song like these ones : “Save your heart” by Mayday Parade, and “Save yourself” by Sense Field.
2. Stop thinking about them. Don’t waste your time for them anymore. For what you think of someone who doesn’t think about you? Don’t think about them, don’t miss them.
3. Talk to friends. True friends are awesome. Their support are priceless.
4. Write down your feelings. You sad? Wanna cry? Or angry? Just write it all. I write poems to express my feelings and it helps.
5. Don’t put a fake smile on your face. Fake smile is not good. And actually its kinda useless. If you keep crying inside. Smile from your heart, it’s the best thing. Look around you and you gotta find some good reasons to smile again.
6. Help others. Maybe it sounds weird, but I did feel better when I could help people. Helping people gives you a good feeling and it can help healing your broken heart!
7. Get busy. Do your old hobbies, play games, read books, etc. Get yourself busy. Don’t give yourself time to think about them.
8. And don’t be afraid to fall in love again. Don’t close your heart only because a wrong person. You deserve to be with someone who truly loves you. And you will find the right one if you keep believe in love.
The truth is, life is short. Don’t waste it to keep being
sad. Broken heart will be healed in time, trust me. I had it before, and now I
have a fully-recovered heart. Don’t say you can’t live without them. Yes you
can. Don’t say you can’t love anyone else but them. Sure you can.
You know, when God takes something from your hands,
actually He is preparing you to get something better. Don’t forget it. When you
find the firght one, you will understand what I mean. And till that day, just
enjoy your life, be happy and save your heart for the one who deserves it.
Keep strong!
